Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Cheater Cheater....where'd you meet here....

......First Tiger and Elin and now Jesse and Sandra.........


guys guys guys.....look at both of these woman! All I know is the woman these men had an affair with do not hold a candle to the wifes they have/had. What were you thinking?!?! I watched the Blindside last night {GREAT MOVIE} and all I could think was the crying shame it is that Sandra's BIG moment has been completely ruined by her husbands cheating ways. Whats almost worst is the fact that the mistresses almost seem proud of what they have done. Atleast they dont seem to be showing guilt or shame.

I could not imagine how I would feel if my husband EVER cheated on me. NO, im not married but still......"til death do us part"...."good times and bad" I take that very serious. Which could be why im 26 and not married. I have found the guy I would love to spend the rest of my life with but I also think its all in God's perfect timing!!
Okay....Aaron dont run if you reading...and no pressure. ;)
But seriously back to the cheating...its so sad. These two men are to blame....they need to take FULL responsibility for the pain they have caused. These woman out trying to get there face on magazine covers...or a buck for a story do not matter....what matters is the fact that these men have cheated on their wives, humiliated them, crushed their spirits, question their trust and its so sad. I also think it should be a private matter...yes we all want to know whats going on and want to hear what Tiger and Jesse were thinking but we have to remember the innocent wives involved. I do not think all woman are innocent either so please do not think Im letting the woman off easily. Woman cheat too. Im not talking boyfriend/girlfriend stuff...Im talking Married people...joined together by God....people who have vowed to be there good and bad, thick and thin...........
I remember a few years ago I was at a church service for singles and I heard something that really made me think.....You know we are all SINGLE until married! You dont mark important paper work as TAKEN or MARRIED you mark it as SINGLE or MARRIED. So if you want your cake and eat it too.....if you want to mingle around....cheat on your girlfriend....then do it while your SINGLE! (No I dont think you should treat on your girlfriend/boyfriend bc it only causes trust issues that are hard to get back). Okay enough of my venting ;) Im just shocked by these men and their actions.


7 comments:

Beth McC. said...

This is a great post! Good for you for laying it out there. I agree with you totally!

ReJOYce! said...

I'm shocked too! It's just sad... Shame on you Tiger Woods and Jesse James. Have a Great Day!

Laura Brown said...

You said it girl!! I am so sad for Sandra too!! Bless her heart! She just said during her Golden Globe acceptance speech "that it was no surprise that her acting had gotten better, because she finally has someone who has her back!". I can't believe he would do that to her and with someone so TRASHY looking!!

Annie said...

OMG....how could anyone cheat on our darling little Sandra?! She is so beautiful...so talented...so classy. Shame on him!! This whole thing makes me so mad!!
And Elin too...she is so pretty!
Poor girls :(

Brittany said...

I agree with you completely! This needed to be said :-) These men are disgusting. Poor Sandra too because wasn't she trying to adopt Jesse's daughter with him or something? I feel so terrible for both of these women.

Stephanie said...

Very well SAID, Lee-Lee!

NOW this is for Aaron....GET ON IT!!! I'm ready to go to the beach =) It will be the first wedding I've ever been to on the beach (if we were invited) ;)

Elizabeth said...

I cant believe that this is happening all OVER...to so many people!! It's sad!! I am catching up on blog reading...got behind this week...crazy at work!! Have a wonderful weekend!!